100 ways to a better life
I make a list like this every so often, after I have been reminded of the sheer joy that is simply living. They help me when my mind is obscured by my own thoughts, or basically when I am in the way of life itself and need to step aside. The first part is being aware of when that is, and the second thing is to know how to step aside. I usually keep these in my trusty moleskin, but I decided to share this one. Maybe you can make your own and share it with the world too. I particularly loved David Good's one, it has a lot of heart. Here's mine: 1. Be the first to smile
2. Learn the Hula and share it with others
3. Greet strangers like you greet friends
4. Eat honey out of the jar with your fingers
5. Practice Yoga every day
6. Teach Yoga to those who ask
7. Exhale all the way out often
8. Chant a little every day, it's good for warming the heart
9. Sometimes drop the chanting and sing a little instead
10. Savour food
11. Name at least 5 things every day that you are grateful for
12. Laugh openly
13. Don't be afraid to touch people
14. Really enjoy this moment, the now
15. Always do the right thing
16. Take care of your feet and hands
17. Surf at every opportunity
18. Send postcards, even if you're home
19. Draw what you see with abandon
20. Attentively listen when others are speaking
21. Take regular walks outside
22. When you wash your hands, take the time to enjoy the water and the soap
23. Visit art exhibitions and observe how they make you feel
24. Always volunteer for public speaking when it's about things you love
25. Visit the fine line between fear and excitement regularly
26. Make a new friend
27. Make someone feel good every day
28. Be generous with your compliments
29. Don't judge, even if you feel judged
30. Forgive, forgive, forgive again
31. Practice non-attachment to people, objects, thoughts, feelings...
32. Be kind to those suffering (everyone)
33. Run barefoot in the grass or in the sand
34. Learn something from everyone
35. Never be too busy for a kiss and a cuddle
36. Massage others (when appropriate!)
37. Question everything but never shoot the messenger
38. Read inspiring stories and share them
39. Learn to cook something new
40. Keep your secrets
41. Not only respect, but also honour others
42. Share all your good stuff
43. Surrender - the world does not rest on your shoulders, you are the dirt of the earth :)
44. Experience nature as much as possible
45. Pay for someone else once in a while
50. Listen to music from all over the world
51. Persist
52. Don't be afraid to be different
53. Don't try to be different
54. Burn incense every day
55. Spend time with children
56. Spend time with elderly people
57. Say "no" enough
58. Say "yes" enough
59. Get good headphones and listen to music while watching sunsets and sunrises
60. Yes...get up early so you have time to enjoy the start of the day
61. Don't hide your vulnerability, it's what connects you to others
62. Read the Yoga Sutra. Read it again
63. Pick your favourite fruit and describe it in as many ways as you can
64. Close your eyes and rely on your other senses
65. Don't argue with aggressive people, walk away
66. Be prepared to change your mind
67. Paint your toes in a colour that makes you smile
68. Celebrate the successes of others
69. Sleep early
70. Grow things from seeds
71. Be colourful
72. Wear comfortable shoes
73. Don't be afraid to get wet, walk in the rain, paddle in the sea
74. Enjoy your guilty pleasures, but don't be addicted to them
75. Don't buy stuff you don't need, you're stealing from yourself
76. Sponsor a child
77. Sing or whistle with the birds
78. Have a reusable water bottle on you
79. If you are a Yogi, practice all 8 limbs, no just Asana
80. Speak to those no one speaks to
81. Meet your neighbours
82. Ride a bike or a skateboard everywhere
83. Refuse to rush
84. Sit on the floor every day
85. Buy a tube of soap bubbles and blow some
86. Gift your favourite book to someone every so often
87. Give the senses a rest and turn off the idevices at home
88. Take a class in something new and random
89. Meditate or try to
90. Moisturize
91. Doodle
92. Donate all the stuff you don't use or wear
93. Use an eye bag every so often and relax
94. Nurture your friendships
95. Call home regularly
96. Buy flowers for someone every now and again
97. Write a poem
98. Feel your breath in your body
99. Do things without attachment to the outcome
100. Love <3